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  1. 'I test sex toys for a living' - Violet Fenn on rabbits, alien eggs and the beast that lives under her bed

    'I test sex toys for a living' - Violet Fenn on rabbits, alien eggs and the beast that lives under her bed

    The most common response when I tell people what I do for a living generally involves excited squeaking and expressions of jealousy. Which is fairly unsurprising, because I write about sex and sex toys - and I get paid for it. Mine is not a normal existence, by most people’s standards - and I got into it almost entirely by accident.

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  2. How to introduce sex toys to your relationship by Violet Fenn

    How to introduce sex toys to your relationship by Violet Fenn

    Many people still see using sex toys as a private, individual activity. And that’s great – there’s nothing better than taking some time out to relax in your own way in your own sexy time. But toys can also be a great addition to an intimate relationship. It doesn’t matter what type of relationship you’re in (or even how many people you’re in it with) – when it comes to sexy fun times there’s always something available to add some spice to your sauce.

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  3. Violet Fenn asks: Is it Time to Say Goodbye to Dating Apps?

    Violet Fenn asks: Is it Time to Say Goodbye to Dating Apps?

    Is it time to say goodbye to dating apps?

    The internet has been part of all of our lives for so long now that it’s hard to think of a time when it wasn’t at the heart of pretty much everything in our daily lives. It makes everything easier – shopping, chatting to friends, reading the news (so long as you take it all with a pinch of salt) and, of course, dating.

    Or does it? Can internet dating ever be the same as meeting someone in ‘meat space’ (my favourite term for the outside, ‘real’ world)?

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  4. When it comes to great sex, quality beats quantity - Guest post by Violet Fenn

    When it comes to great sex, quality beats quantity - Guest post by Violet Fenn

    What do you think is an acceptable amount of times to have sex each week? Once if you’re lucky? Maybe twice if the kids are out and you’re not too knackered? According to a poll carried out in 2016, tiredness really is the main cause of going without, with 49% of respondents blaming exhaustion for not getting jiggy as often as they’d ideally like.

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  5. Why Vanilla Sex could be the best sex you've ever had

    Why Vanilla Sex could be the best sex you've ever had

    The term ‘vanilla sex’ is so predictably boring, isn’t it? Vanilla is seen as being as plain as you can get – the default option for those who can’t cope with any excitement in their life and the flavour you go for if you’re scared of your own shadow.

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  6. How to shop for sex toys when you have a disability - Violet Fenn

    How to shop for sex toys when you have a disability - Violet Fenn

    What happens when physical issues get in the way of sexual desire? Most people don’t give a thought to accessibility when buying sex toys. And why would they – you just pick the thing up, apply it to the appropriate sensitive spots and job’s a good ‘un, right? Well yes – if you have no physical disabilities. But many people do, and it can make adult products difficult to use. I spoke to several people with different physical issues and asked them what problems they had when shopping for sex toys and whether they have any suggestions for those in a similar position.

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  7. Christmas Sex & How To Keep it Coming!

    Christmas Sex & How To Keep it Coming!

    Christmas is coming - and with any luck so will the rest of us. Traditionally the time for family, festivities and bedroom frolicking (not all at the same time), Christmas is always the time of highest stress levels. So what can be done to lessen the strain on your nerves and ensure you still get time to make merry under the mistletoe without being caught at it by the kids (or worse, your grandparents)?

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  8. Bottoms Up! A beginners guide to Anal Sex

    Bottoms Up! A beginners guide to Anal Sex
    Why is it that in this day and age people are still embarrassed to talk about butts? Every time I write about anal fun online, the messages start. They range from the curious (‘I’ve never tried that. Should I try that?’), via concern (‘am I missing out?’), to downright boasting (‘let me tell you about the time I did that thing!’). Yet people so rarely discuss it publicly. Most of us will happily chat about vibrators and orgasms and sex in general with anyone who’ll listen, so why is anal still so seemingly taboo?
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  9. What is pegging? Guest blogger Violet Fenn talks strap-ons, harnesses and role reversal.

    What is pegging? Guest blogger Violet Fenn talks strap-ons, harnesses and role reversal.

    Up until a few years ago I assumed that pegging was just something you did with your laundry. Oh boy, was I wrong. Pegging describes a woman strapping on a dildo and giving a male partner the ride of his life. And who wouldn’t want a bit of that?

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