Introducing a Vibrator to your Partner

We would not recommend just turning up in bed and introducing the vibrator to your partner without any warning. Remember, healthy communication is crucial in any sexual relationship and important when it comes to introducing a vibrator to your partner. So, it’s important to talk about it together before purchasing.

Select one together. This can be done at a few clicks of the mouse (browse the vast range of vibrators on our site to see just how easy this is). It’s important to select the vibrator which provides the stimulation that your partner likes.

Try and ensure the vibrator is ready before you set off with foreplay... fumbling around with the packaging can be a real mood-breaker.

Communication is important when using a vibrator to. If you are using the vibrator on your partner, then ask them if they are enjoying it, and make sure they are happy with the speed / vibration setting. Similarly, if the vibrator is being used on you then you can reassure them that it is working by expressing yourself. It is a very erotic experience watching your partner getting pleasured.

I good place in the process to introduce the sex toy is when you and your partner are stimulating each other. You can give your partner a demonstration on yourself first, before letting them take the wheels.

We would also recommend having some lubricant handy too. It’s very natural for the first few times of use to be a little ‘dryer’ as couples are anxious about using the toy. Using lube helps to avoid injury and make sure the experience is comfortable and enjoyable.

Finally, using a vibrator is not an admission of defeat in the bedroom, they are fun, enjoyable, and stimulating and enjoyed by couples all over the world. It’s estimated that one in five women own a vibrator. Recent surveys have also revealed that around 10% of couples in the USA enjoy using vibrators at least occasionally in partner sex.

Remember ladies, if you are introducing the vibrator into the relationship, then it’s important to re-assure your partner. Tell them that it’s not because they are not good enough... there are many things that a vibrator cannot do in a relationship like hug, kiss and hold a conversation!