Tips on How to Use a Dildo

Being the dildo experts we are, we thought we’d provide some valuable advice on how to use a dildo. After all, you want to make sure you get maximum pleasure from your purchase. After all, that’s what they are there for!

Choosing the right dildo is important. They come in all different shapes and sizes, which are designed to satisfy different orifices and penetration preferences. See our Dildo Buyers Guide for more information about making the right choice. It’s best to use a lubricant for any penetrative sex toy. Apply the lubricant to the surface of the dildo, and also to the inside and outside of your body.

It’s also wise to put a condom on a dildo too, reducing the possibility of having any allergic reactions to the dildo material. If you dildo can be placed in boiling water, then you do not need to use a condom it you boil after each use (some silicone dildos can be boiled).

Take your dildo for a test run if you are planning to use the toy with your partner. It gives you a chance to see how it feels for you. Just like normal intercourse, it helps if you get yourself turned on first... any sex toy works better after the ‘oven has been pre-heated’.

Starting slowly allows you to enjoy the sensation better. Use the dildo to stimulate the outside of your body first, then maybe move onto your external genitalia. Once the time is right to penetrate, experiment with different rhythms and speeds and see what you like. See what depth you are comfortable with as ladies going too deep can bump the end of the cervix which can be painful. You should also experiment with different angles of penetration to see what feels good. Try stimulating the clitoris at the same time as penetrating with the sex toy. For many women, this really increases the sensation.

Don’t forget, using dildos can be just as much fun with a partner too. Maybe with a harness or a strap-on-kit. Whatever you do, relax and enjoy it!